Some people just like to needle. Often men of a certain age. It seems to be their amusement to see whether the can get a reaction.
I grew up with lots of them around, so it rarely works, but it does churn up interesting conversations.
Over the weekend I had such a conversation - it started out about freehand embroidery "don't you think there is a lot of it about?"
I explained that I felt that it was a medium that allowed creativity but avoided the need for a lot of hand finishing or embellishing. Therefore it was great for people who want to make hand crafted products which can retail at an affordable price.
Then he let on that he was a friend of a friend of another freehand embroiderer, based in England, and that they had just got a great contract. "Doesn't that make you feel bad? Doesn't that make you ask why them, why not you?"
Now I was surprised - not just at the odd way this chap got his amusement (I am not paraphrasing)- but actually that it didn't make me feel bad, not a tot.
It made me feel - "wow thats great", "handmade being appreciated", "expanding the market", "chance for us all".
Perhaps it is because I use twitter a lot - its a great way to dip in and out of people's lives in a water cooler way. Many of the people I chose to follow are other makers - and what you get are a string of triumphs and failures, good news and set backs. If I read it and felt bad every time I heard that someone had got a great stockist or felt smug when I heard that their sewing machine broke . . . well . . . it would be getting entertainment in a very warped way. Aside from that, it would be very exhausting.
So dear needling chap at the weekend, if you happen to read this blog, may I just stress I was sincere in my hope that you pass on my congratulations, and in my hope that together we continue to expand the market for beautifully handmade in the UK items - you can never have enough.
Jane, you are too nice. I would have told the grumpy old goat to sod off - but then again for him that would have been a success. And I totally agree with your approach - spread the love!!!
Posted by: Jenny | June 16, 2010 at 03:47 PM
Here here!! x
Posted by: rosiehearts | June 16, 2010 at 03:47 PM
Well done Jane, for rising above it and keeping positive. Positive vibes are good!
Posted by: Fiona | June 16, 2010 at 03:55 PM
He obviously knows nothing about Snapdragon's place in the hand crafted world. The little jump for joy whenever your products are found in some beautiful emporium, or in an online shop swelling lots of gorgeous goodies.
Let's face it, to us yours is a fantastic success story, which we're all very, very happy about.
Loved your response to his needling.
Pam x
Posted by: Pam | June 16, 2010 at 03:58 PM
i was just gonna say here here too! well..now i've said it. i'm always always happy for crafters/soapers who gain success and i'm happy to tweet it or blog it for them too. we're all in this together so we should act like it. x
Posted by: Tiggy | June 16, 2010 at 04:04 PM
I am so with you on this one Jane. There is room for all in this world and another's success is just a great endorsement for all things handmade in general. Silly man, he obviously didn't get that!!
Posted by: donna flower | June 16, 2010 at 05:38 PM
Awww, you're so lovely! What a silly man. There are lots of people who sell eggs too - and that's not a problem either :-)
Posted by: dottycookie | June 16, 2010 at 05:43 PM
did you mention you'd also got a great contract?! ;))
Posted by: caireen | June 17, 2010 at 10:12 AM
On Saturday night I went to French Knots for the Footie Match and we were singing your praises and saying what a superstar you are... and we can never have too many of those. Silly man. Lots of love, Amanda xxx
Posted by: amanda makes | June 20, 2010 at 10:45 PM